Do you and your partner have fun when making love? Individual sexualities and sexual activities should be enjoyed, and intimacy should be satisfying.
Do you and your partner have fun while having sex? Do you play with toys? Of course, you don't need sex toys to orgasm, but they can add to sexual fun. So, you might want to invest in a few sex toys, for yourself and for your lover.
One sure fire way for women to achieve orgasm, is by clitoris stimulation. But, orgasm can be more powerful by experiencing vagina penetration and clitoral stimulation, at the same time. Women's bodies are sensitive on the inside, as well as the outside, and sensations in both areas are deliciously sensual.
Of course, fingers can cause you to orgasm, but vibrators, dildos, and dongs can add that extra punch to the mix. Add vibrators, bullets, and clitoral pumps to clitoral sensations, and you've got an explosive situation!
IN THE BEGINNING:
A woman should know how to masturbate and climax, without the aid of a sex toy, before adding battery operated toys to her playtime. Knowing how to stimulate herself and reach orgasm allows her to get acquainted with her body and its pleasure zones before adding more stimulation.
But, if you are an experienced masturbater, or if you can't get that orgasm by using just your fingers, there are toys available. In fact, there are so many sex toys on the market, that you'll never want for anything again!
BULLETS:
For instance, a vibrating bullet is the best way to stimulate your clitoris while masturbation, and/or while having sex with a partner. These wonderful little bullets can arouse sensations anywhere on your body. Gently touching breasts, nipples, balls, or penis with these vibrating wonders, delivers a powerful punch. If you're unfamiliar with bullets, they are toys that quickly tease your body into a frenzy. They're small and won't interfere with things your partner may be doing. And, if your all by yourself, a bullet will be your best sex friend. Bottom line - every woman must have a bullet!
Vibrators can be the next best thing to a bullet. They're actually a longer version of the small bullet, but can be used externally or internally, and add more options for stimulation. Usually, vibrators make louder, and distinctive sounds, so if secrecy is an issue, you might want to stick with a bullet.
Try running the vibrator over your body, up your stomach, and down your thighs. Place it between your vaginal lips, and let the slow buzz build a fire. Gently place the tip of the vibrator on your clitoris for tremendous pleasure, or insert it and use a finger for clitoral stimulation. Vibrators are multi-purpose and can add a lot to your play time.
DUAL ACTION VIBRATORS:
Dual Action Vibrators are another best friend. These gems go above and beyond, doing double duty with insertion and clitoral stimulation at the same time! These toys are wonderful, but you should know how to climax without toys, before you invest in any of these marvels. Some dual action vibrators are waterproof, some spin, some are big, and some are small. All you need to do is find the one that works the best for you. These vibrators do all the work for you, so if you want quick or multiple orgasms, this type of sex toy is your best bet.
CLITORAL PUMPS:
Clitoral Pumps add just a bit of extra stimulation. They work by pumping up the clitoral area and help to fill it with blood. If you're experiencing difficulty to reach climax, a pump might be your answer. This toy makes the clitoris sensitive and responsive to anything and everything! And, pumps can be found with a vibrating function.
Definitely, all of these toys have a place in the line of pleasure. Here's a few techniques and advice to enhance their abilities. Always take your time, go slow, enjoy the ride, and build-up to the big moment. Use your fingers to get yourself aroused.
Toys, like bullets or vibrators, to heighten stimulation, and help you reach climax. If you want to experience sexual frenzy, use the toy to stimulate your clitoris, bringing your body just to the brink of orgasm - then STOP. Your body will scream for more! Now, touch your excited clitoris with the toy, and be prepared to have an explosive orgasm. You're sensitivity level will be off the chart, and most likely, you'll be able to have multiple orgasms!
But, why stop now? Becoming multi-orgasmic can be the ultimate experience, and a gift to you and your lover. Masturbating with a toy for the second, third, and fourth rounds easily turns this goal into a reality. You'll never be satisfied with just one orgasm again!
It's important to remember to use sex toys as an enhancement; they are not a replacement for self-touch. Once you've learned how to successfully give yourself an orgasm, time and time again, you can try new techniques and toys. But, the key is to go slow, arouse yourself, and thoroughly enjoy the experience. If you choose, you might want to share your toys and techniques with your lover, and enjoy your new-found freedom and exquisite treats, together!
ENCOURAGEMENT
Information within this article explores different ideals and concepts, and provides basic masturbation techniques. Self-touch and pleasure is a personal thing, and if you have developed ways that work for you, good - GO FOR IT!
If you have and use toys, that's great! Just remember to use your fingers for a slow build-up before playing with your toys. Sex toys are wonderful enhancements for any sex life - solo or with a partner. Don't be intimidated, find something and give that will give you the gift of pleasure. Whether you're alone or with a partner, masturbation is essential to have healthy and satisfying sex. This article is meant to provide basic tips and techniques for self pleasure. Masturbation is a personal experience, so do what you like and thoroughly enjoy!
